Value people and add value to people
When you value people, it is easier to add value to them. Take the time to get to know people and spend time with them. You will begin to value them in your life, and the effort will fuel the relationship.
Once you value a person, you will desire to add value to them. This will bring you joy.
It has been said that people do not care how much you know until they know how much you care. Let people know you value them, say it out loud, and communicate it. They will be happy when you follow up and do something that adds value to their life. They will most likely value you!
This builds positive momentum because the more you value people, the more you want to add value to them. This is a healthy cycle of caring and sharing that will build strong relationships.
Much like exercise, the value is in repetition. If you make this a habit in your life, it will grow stronger with time and effort. There is no limit to the number of people you can value and then add value to.
Every day, ask yourself, “Who am I going to add value to today?” Do something nice for someone you know and something nice for someone you don’t know. If you are short on time, just give someone a genuine smile and tell them to have a wonderful day. The simple things matter.
Find new ways to add value to those you are close to. Surprise family and friends with an act of kindness that will surprise them and make them feel like you did it for them.
Giving is greater than receiving, and focusing on adding value to other people will make your day. Make it fun and a personal challenge to develop new ways to add value to people.
Try something new and serve people in unique ways. Learn a new skill, like baking a cake, and then give it to someone who could use a pleasant surprise.
Check on the senior citizens in your neighborhood and do light chores for them. Slow down, listen to their stories, and appreciate their life experiences. It will add value to them and it will add value to you.
Be a person of value, who values others and then adds value to others.
Be helpful and supportive to those who could use it. Listen and pay attention to what people share with you because it will reveal clues about how you can add value to them.
Being a person of value means accepting your value and your potential to add value. When you realize you have value, you will want to give it away to those you care about. It is an attitude of gratitude for who you are and who you can serve. Adding value needs to be intentional, so look for opportunities that come your way and then take action!
I hope this adds value to you and inspires you to add value to others.